Grrrrrrrr (rant)

[ggr1972 (deleted)]

I have to be THAT guy again, the guy who says what men in dating chatrooms never say because it's not what women want to hear. (and is often attacked by these PC guys)

One thing I've noticed is the huge difference between Men and Women when it comes to the being "alone"

When women (bbw or not) are alone, it's because they've rejected a dozen or so guys for various reasons (looks, etc)

When men are alone...it's rarely because of this reason. The exceptions are the pretty boys that women fawn over and desire...these men, so used to being treated better, act like women in this regard. Lord knows dating sites are PACKED with men looking for women who are rejected for the very reasons that if they did it to women would get them called shallow and worse.

And it KILLS me to hear/read about women complaining about having men (below their standards I assume) hit on them. What a terrible burden!!! ANY guy would kill to have a lot of women hitting on them.

And finally, NO ONE is justified in crying about men/women judging them by looks/weight etc when THEY love talking about their right to be picky themselves.


(rant over....bring on the hypocritical hate)

[cookinbubbles]

`Don't always assume that men are rejected by appeance alone.
Many women prefer someone with more brains than a baseball has and many men act like idiots around women, only thinking with the wrong head....
There is a huge difference between a sexy man and a jerk.
The fact is, many men on dating sites are looking to get laid.
Most women are looking for a long term relationship, in some cases marriage and children.
The men women fall in love with are rarely really good looking guys with great physiques.
Take an afternoon and go hang out at the mall and watch for older couples who have obviously together for a long time. Now take a look at how those people look...Some of the women are homely as heck, most of the men sure are and yet there they go, strolling hand in hand. You will often see the man standing holding the womans purse as she shops....THATS commitment and long term relationship and has NOTHING to do with how either one looks.